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小火炉爸的纪实报道
每天早上小火炉爸送孩子去学校。今天他头一次写了个较长的报道,我给贴上来,也算鼓励一把小火炉爸。
When 小火炉 woke up, he was not very happy, saying 'I do not want to go to school, I want to go to work with 爸爸."
Later when we left home, he said the same thing. On the way, I told him, how about go to work with 爸爸 tomorrow,
he said "I want to go to work with 爸爸 NOW."
It seems that 小火炉 knows how to use NOW.
Once we got closer to daycare, 小火炉 realized that we are not going to work. He wanted me to drive
straight to skating place, not daycare.
After entered daycare, Ms. Sandee (小火炉班上的老师)was there. 小火炉 said I want to go to work with 爸爸. Ms.Sandee said, you are not an adult, you can not go to work. Later, your son said, "I do not like Ms. Sandee, I like Ms. Sandra (园长也是老师)." Both of them heard it. Ms. Sandra laughed and said, "That will hurt someone's feeling". Ms. Sandee said to 小火炉, "What, what did you say?'
小火炉 wanted to go with 小火炉爸, but 小火炉爸 gave him to Ms. Sandee, and ran away. 小火炉 cried. Not sure how long he will cry.
我给小火炉爸的建议:
1。I think we should tell him it is not nice to say "don't like someone".
2。And, when he said he wants to go to work with you, you should tell him that kids can only go to school and only adult can go to work. Tell him that you need to go to work to earn money to buy books and toys for him. If he does not want to listen, let him choose to stay at home by himself or go to school. Usually he will know the school is the only choice.
3。If you tell him to go to work with you tomorrow, 小火炉 will remember it from now on and ask you again tomorrow. So don't cheat him.
还有别的建议么?
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