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发表于 2009-3-28 19:30:58 | 只看该作者

re:贝贝妈,别着急,这是急不来的。我也觉得带...

贝贝妈,别着急,这是急不来的。我也觉得带孩子要social,是为了他能对别人有兴趣,更好的模仿,来加强语言。像小火炉就是对小朋友很不友好(在没有大人帮忙下),我们也很头痛。我现在要做的,就是雇个play tutor,同时诱惑邻居的小朋友来家玩,看能不能降低我儿子对固定小朋友的敌意。其实就像好多人说的,当孩子玩得高兴,感兴趣的时候,他应该就更愿意说了。我看书上写的,这种play1个星期最少4次,你要是能找个固定的,儿子喜欢的小朋友来玩,就好了。

心情沮丧谁都有,别怕。过去就好了。

我们继续加油吧!
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 楼主| 发表于 2009-4-4 12:47:14 | 只看该作者

re:你要是能找个固定的,儿子喜欢的小朋友来玩...

你要是能找个固定的,儿子喜欢的小朋友来玩,就好了。

其实朋友小孩很爱来玩。主要时间协调不好。儿子的安排满满的。朋友的孩子下午还要午睡。。。
那个麦当劳优点是经常有孩子。我家附近这个就很少孩子。所以经常去那,在放学后。

儿子打了IV。回家后我洗澡。他跑来告诉我WIPE。不知
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发表于 2009-4-4 19:38:58 | 只看该作者

re:很有启发

很有启发
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发表于 2009-4-5 03:23:02 | 只看该作者

re:记得看别人的帖子,好像要从孩子社交上打突...

记得看别人的帖子,好像要从孩子社交上打突破口,要先从一个贵人身上着手。对于我儿子来讲,去麦当劳等处,好像用处不大,经常是别的孩子都打成一片了,我们还是那个独立的,就算别人跟他说话,他也不理,我觉得他对社交没欲望,没信心。他就喜欢粘在妈妈身上,跟妈妈玩,要不就是别人走这头,他就去那头。

我现在想的就是,给他找3个左右不同的孩子,每次骚扰不同家庭,然后扩大他的接触面,同时固定邀请1-2个孩子来家里,能玩一会儿都行,只要坚持来。

你看出来了吧,我这人理论不行,实践也才起点,说也可能说不到点上,你就凑合看吧。我现在超希望能搬离这个州,去个服务好的地方,怕把孩子耽误了。
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 楼主| 发表于 2009-4-5 03:49:04 | 只看该作者

re:我现在想的就是,给他找3个左右不同的孩子...

我现在想的就是,给他找3个左右不同的孩子,每次骚扰不同家庭,

这个在美国这破地还真难。中国家庭孩子大多讲中文。我儿子一点中文都不行。老美家庭玩一次恨不得一个礼拜前就得越好了。像我时间这么随即,难。

你从哪找3个左右不同的孩子?给分享分享。我觉得你实践操作挺好的。真的。
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 楼主| 发表于 2009-4-5 04:14:44 | 只看该作者

re:不知这个是不是教育论坛ANDREW...


不知这个是不是教育论坛ANDREW 提到的融合游戏疗法的来源。学习一下再说

Can I play? Classroom-based interventions for teaching play skills to children with autism.


Publication: Focus on Autism and Other Developmental Disabilities

Publication Date: 22-JUN-02

Author: Terpstra, Judith E., ; Higgins, Kyle ; Pierce, Tom
COPYRIGHT 2002 Pro-Ed

There are many interventions and methods discussed in the research related to teaching social and play skills to children with autism and other developmental disorders. These include (a) teaching isolated play skills in the context of preteaching,(b) script training for play skills, (c) using peer models, and (d) using pivotal response training. This article describes methods to adapt this research for effective use in both specialized and inclusive classrooms.

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Children with autism have deficit areas that affect their lives both socially and educationally. One of these deficit areas is the ability to engage in typical play individually or with peers (Schleien, Mustonen, Rynders, & Fox, 1990). A child with autism who has deficits in play skills may also demonstrate related behavioral deficits (Thorp, Stahmer, & Schreibman, 1995) and social difficulties with peers and adults (Belchic & Harris, 1994).

Children engage in a variety of types of play. These include symbolic play, functional play, and sociodramatic play. Symbolic play is using one object as if it were another, attributing properties to the object that it does not possess, or referring to absent objects as if they are present (Jarrold, Boucher, & Smith, 1993; Lewis & Boucher, 1995; Libby, Powell, Messer, & Jordan, 1998; Stahmer, 1995; Wolfberg & Schuler, 1993). The symbolic use of an object for play includes common play activities such as using a stick for a sword and having pretend or invisible friends. Functional play involves using objects in a way that is appropriate to their function (Libby et al., 1998; Stahmer, 1995; Wolfberg & Schuler, 1993). A child may use miniature plastic kitchen utensils to cook a pretend dinner for a parent or friend. Sociodramatic play is social in nature and involves role-playing activities in which children interact with one another based on roles relating to a particular theme (Goldstein & Cisar, 1992; Thorp et al., 1995). Sociodramatic play includes activities such as playing house, playing school, or playing store. Children with autism often have a difficult time engaging in these activities due to the social interaction required, which includes language, social cues, and physical contact, and the abstract nature of pretending.

The act of playing occurs on different levels with children. Isolated play involves the child in activity with an object or an action that does not require another individual (Schleien et al., 1990; Wolfberg & Schuler, 1993). This may be observed in children when they engage in activity with a favorite toy or object. However, many children with autism may use the toy or object in a manner that is repetitive or not a common use of the object (Wolfberg, 1999). A child with autism who has a deficit in play skills may repetitively spin the wheels of a toy car instead of moving the car on a track.

Common focus or dyadic play is an activity or action that requires cooperation with another individual (Schleien et al., 1990; Wolfberg & Schuler, 1993). This level of play commonly involves two children playing a game or using the same toy. A child with autism may play near another child or with some of the same toys but not interact with the other child.

Group play is an activity involving cooperation between three or more individuals (Schleien et al., 1990). Activities that are examples of group play are board games, nonteam playground games, or children playing and interacting with the same toys. This level of play may be difficult for a child with autism due to the social cues and interaction necessary as well as the abstract nature involved in playing with some toys.

Team play is described as a competition between two or more groups intent on achieving a mutual goal (Schleien et al., 1990). Team play is often an organized sport or playground game that children engage in, such as baseball, basketball, kickball, or team tag. Children with autism may have difficulty with this level of play because of the intense social interaction, high level of activity, and specific rules involved in a game.

The research literature provides a strong information base concerning interventions for teaching play and social interaction skills to children with autism. Four of these interventions that focus on the use of classroom-based instruction to teach play skills are the focus of this article. These interventions include teaching isolated play skills (Coe, Matson, Fee, Manikam, & Linarello, 1990; Lewis & Boucher, 1995; Lifter, Sulzer-Azaroff, Anderson, & Cowdery, 1993), implementing script training (Goldstein & Cisar, 1992; Krantz & McClannahan, 1993), teaching appropriate play skills with the use of peer trainers and peer examples (Baker, Koegel, & Koegel, 1998; Belchic & Harris, 1994; Goldstein & Cisar, 1992; Meyer et al., 1987; Pierce & Schreibman, 1995; Schleien et al., 1990; Stahmer, 1995; Wolfberg & Schuler, 1993), and teaching play skills using pivotal response training (Stahmer, 1995; Pierce & Schreibman, 1995; Thorp et al., 1995).

The following sections of this article address the considerations and format for teaching play skills to children with autism. Discussed are several of the important factors to consider when teaching play skills to children with autism, including developmental appropriateness, language, and motivation. Each of the four selected interventions are described in detail in a way that teachers, parents, and other professionals will be able to implement these techniques into classrooms or training programs.

Considerations for Classroom-Based Play Skills Intervention

All children have unique qualities, skills, and needs that parents and teachers should consider when making educational decisions. This is the same for children with autism. When determining which intervention to implement for teaching play skills, there are several important factors to consider. These include the developmental level of the child, the language level of the child, availability of typical peers, motivational techniques, the setting, and the type of play that will be taught.

Developmental Readiness

The developmental level of the child should be considered when selecting activities and interventions. It is important, especially in the early childhood years, to follow the guidelines of developmentally appropriate practice.

Lifter et al. (1993) discussed the importance of considering the developmental appropriateness of a play activity when teaching preschool children with autism. Children consistently demonstrate more acquisition and generalization of the developmentally appropriate activity when the developmental readiness of the child is considered. They are able to learn and generalize developmentally appropriate play activities more quickly than age-appropriate play activities (Lifter et al., 1993). Developmentally appropriate activities are identified activities based on developmentally sequenced objectives that the child is ready to learn (e.g., Lifter et al., 1993). These developmentally appropriate skills are those that are at the child's current level of functioning as opposed to choosing age-appropriate skills based on the level of functioning of a same-age peer without a disability. The developmental level and subsequent appropriate skills for a child with autism must be determined individually.

Language Development

Stahmer (1995) found that children with autism perform at levels similar to those of typical children of the same language ability when elicited or instructed to play symbolically. To teach play skills to children with autism it is important to consider language skills and developmental levels. Mundy, Sigman, Ungerer, and Sherman (1987) reported on several studies that found a relationship between receptive and expressive language and the child's functional and symbolic play skills. Play skills are an important part of language development in infants and young children and, therefore, an important aspect in the development of language for children with disabilities. Through play children learn many aspects of language, including nonverbal cues, turn taking, joint attention, regulation of behavior through requesting, and other social interactions (Mundy et al., 1987). When beginning a play skills intervention program, parents and teachers must consider the language development of the child to select appropriate activities and events to start intervention. When teaching a child to play a simple game such as throwing and catching a ball, the teacher must determine that the child understands turn taking or the teacher must incorporate learning turn taking skills along with learning the play skill. Similarly, if the intervention that has been chosen is script training, the child should have some expressive language ability, either verbal or through an augmentative system. This is not essential prior to beginning the intervention; it may also be incorporated into the intervention procedure. Teaching language skills as a part of the play skills intervention may be necessary at times. Teachers and parents should be aware of the child's ability levels and design the play skills intervention on a level at which the child will be successful for maximum benefit.

Peer Involvement

It is beneficial to spend time working with typically developing children concerning their peers with autism. The children can be taught to interact, initiate, reinforce, and prompt their peers with autism so that they engage in positive social interactions and appropriate play (Belchic & Harris, 1994; Goldstein & Cisar, 1992; Pierce & Schreibman, 1995; Schleien et al., 1990). The process of encouraging children without disabilities to engage socially with children with disabilities can be accomplished in a variety of ways. These include formal programs such as Circle of Friends, peer coaching, or peer tutoring programs.

An informal method to engage typical peers is a setting in which the teacher talks to a few students about autism as much as is appropriate. This involves discussions with the students about how best to initiate social situations with the child with autism and how best to accept social initiations from the child with autism. Training programs for peers without disabilities are effective if interactions cannot be encouraged in a naturally occurring setting.

Engaging children in group games with same-age peers to increase appropriate play and positive social interactions is also an effective tool (Baker et al., 1998; Schleien et al., 1990). This can be accomplished by facilitating games (e.g., tag, kickball, dodgeball) on the playground. The more natural the training situation (consider the setting and use of multiple groups of peers), the more generalization will be successful (Baker et al., 1998; Belchic & Harris, 1994).

Motivational Techniques

Motivational factors are also an important aspect to consider when teaching play skills to children with autism. Due to the deficits in play skills and social skills that many children with autism exhibit, interactions that occur between the child and parents, teachers, or others are often initiated by the adult. When the adult initiates the social interaction, however, the child with autism may display higher levels of social avoidance behavior than when the child initiates the social interaction independently (Koegel, Dyer, & Bell, 1987). Several research studies have implemented pivotal response training as a method for teaching play skills (Pierce & Schreibman, 1995; Stahmer, 1995; Thorp et al., 1995). This method has been described as increasing motivation in the child through choice making and preferences. Using the child's preferred topics or obsession themes is an effective method of increasing motivation to maintain positive social interactions and appropriate play behavior (Baker et al., 1998).

A study by Baker et al. (1998), in which a child's obsessions were incorporated into playground games, demonstrated the importance of considering the preferences of the child as a part of their motivation to engage in social or play behavior with others. The three children with autism described in this study had rare or inappropriate social interactions with peers in unstructured settings, such as the playground, prior to intervention. When playground games were developed and introduced that incorporated the child's favorite topics or themes, the children appeared highly motivated to participate in these play interactions (Baker et al., 1998). Teachers and parents can create these games through the following steps: (a) identifying: a favorite theme or obsession of the child (e.g., movie characters, baseball, cars), (b) identifying a playground game that the children typically play and in which the target child would be able to engage (e.g., tag, dodgeball, hide and seek), and (c) making the identified theme the focus of the game (e.g., child has to call out the name of a baseball team before tagging another child). This strategy motivates the child to participate in the game because of the theme and makes him or her the expert at the game because of his or her knowledge of the theme. The typical children want to play and they include the child with autism as a valued team member due to his or her expert knowledge.

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 楼主| 发表于 2009-4-5 04:15:28 | 只看该作者

re:受字数限制无法帖全篇。

受字数限制无法帖全篇。
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 楼主| 发表于 2009-4-5 04:25:44 | 只看该作者

re:具体操作建议:FIGURE 3....

具体操作建议:

FIGURE 3. Suggestions for implementing peer trainers.

* Determine the preferences and motivational activities of the child with autism. From these, develop related games and activities in which several children can participate.

* The following are necessary components of the integrated play groups model:

a. Use naturally integrated settings.

b. Use well-designed play spaces.

c. Consider selection of play materials.

d. Establish a consistent schedule and routine.

e. Form balanced play groups.

f. Focus on the competence of the child with autism.

g. Provide guided participation.

h. Provide full immersion in play.

i. Provide structured training for typical peers that focuses on play initiation and appropriate responses (e.g., commenting, requesting information, requesting action).
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发表于 2009-4-5 11:48:13 | 只看该作者

re:我也在琢磨Playdate,还没实践,还...

我也在琢磨Playdate,还没实践,还不如你们呢,其实这里的中国孩子都讲英文,别担心。我这样想,因为我们的孩子平时太忙,所以如果我们拿出一固定的时间,比如周六下午1:00-4:00PM,提前给各家长发Mail,通常会有一个或几个来的,在慢慢摸索他适合和谁玩和几个人玩。我们需要牺牲时间和精力来适应别人的Schedule。
我曾经想把Basement 建成一个Play Area来吸引孩子,可是可恨的股票把我的钱跌没了,现在卖又于心不甘。
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发表于 2009-4-6 05:46:45 | 只看该作者

re:我觉得和朋友和邻居的孩子在一起最好。所以...

我觉得和朋友和邻居的孩子在一起最好。所以还是需要家长的努力。谢谢您的帮助!
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发表于 2009-4-6 09:40:41 | 只看该作者

我们现在建立的朋友圈

我们现在基本锁定3个小朋友,都不是自闭症。因为我觉得有些自闭小朋友比小火炉严重,所以不能让小火炉体验到朋友的乐趣。我觉得要让正常小朋友喜欢跟我们的孩子玩,就是要父母作为有效的桥梁,能陪贵人玩,就像“我家豆豆的故事-天才并非好事”中豆豆爸讲的一样。但局限于1个小朋友又不太可能,毕竟贵人也有正事,而且可能贵人的父母可能也希望贵人能交往更牛的朋友。其实,我觉得贵人最好找国内那种家里困难的孩子,但美国就不行了。

而且,对于我儿子,我到不是很在意中文的问题。因为如果他听不懂,我可以给他解释,我的主要目的是消除他对别人的敌意,能从朋友中感到快乐。就那么一会儿中文,也不会造成他confuse的。

1。是L阿姨的老大,打算1个星期骚扰1-2次。这个小子挺好玩的,喜欢跟别人家的小朋友,他多数说英文。认识他是因为他弟弟也是自闭症,所以他妈妈就跟我成了朋友,也是同病相怜的人,就特别理解。但因为开车也需要10分钟到他家,所以不可能成天骚扰。

2。是M家的小弟弟(比我们小1岁多,但真是小人精),1个星期1次,主说中文。这是我们已经坚持了半年的小伙伴,但小火炉也就是喜欢去人家,没有太多互动。关键是,我们家长成了好朋友,应该有更多机会出去玩。这个我们是打算调长线的。

3。还有一个就是斜对门的印度小s姐姐。平常,我们只能多跟小s姐姐交往,因为太近了,打算要加强这个交往,争取一天一小时,因为女孩儿真的是个好伙伴。大点儿的女孩儿都有当妈妈的潜质,喜欢跟更小的玩,并知道谦让。像这个小s,家里有个大他7岁的哥哥,也不跟她玩,她也很高兴到我家里玩,而且我觉得最关键的是我跟老公都坐下来陪她玩,她就很高兴。但不能带她出去玩,因为毕竟父母不是朋友,只能在家里发展的友谊,但同时这也是最重要的。希望这种关系能延续下去。

反正我们暂时锁定的就这3家,当然也是动态的,需要不断调整。但我想只要父母放下身段,走出家门,一心给孩子找朋友,就一切都好办。像我们对门的小s,跟我们都成邻居2年多了,我们一直都没跟人深交过,真是惭愧!
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发表于 2009-4-6 09:56:43 | 只看该作者

回Ean妈妈

像你说的固定play date暂时对于我家小火炉比较困难,我知道如果我这样做,发展的结果就是别人都达成一片了,我们家还是单独一个。因为在多次朋友聚会中,我已经深深感受到了,而且有些妈妈已经通过此,给自己的孩子找到了固定玩伴,而我们还是不行。我现在只能1个1个来了。
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发表于 2009-4-6 19:52:59 | 只看该作者

re:对呀,要能有固定的玩伴就好了,但是能要找...

对呀,要能有固定的玩伴就好了,但是能要找到也很不容易。
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 楼主| 发表于 2009-4-7 06:44:29 | 只看该作者

re:要是在国内就好了。楼下成群的小孩。哪还用...

要是在国内就好了。楼下成群的小孩。哪还用这么费劲。唯一问题儿子不会中文。回去太冒险。现在学会这几个英文字费了一两年时间啊。不敢再让他转换。

Ean 妈,天气越来越暖和了。可以多在户外玩了。

柴火 行动最快了。我说你操作好吧。一点没说错。

饺子妈妈 你们在青岛可能不易。等回到家就应该不是问题了吧。 维尼爱妈妈说的好, 和朋友和邻居的孩子在一起最好。
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 楼主| 发表于 2009-6-8 03:35:12 | 只看该作者

re:儿子心眼见长。语言使用频率高了。遇到不知...

儿子心眼见长。语言使用频率高了。遇到不知该说什么词时瞎说一个词。也算进步吧。至少交流欲望多了。

现在所有人里跟妈妈的交流互动最好。所以THERAPIST 有事不能来,我也不太介意了。就是自己更累了。

上网觉得很内疚。为BLUELOVE 和她的孩子们难过。忍不住上来看看本BENMA 的情况跟踪。
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发表于 2009-6-9 02:25:48 | 只看该作者

re:宝宝还是在进步的,贝贝妈真不错。...

宝宝还是在进步的,贝贝妈真不错。

小声提一句:如果宝宝的语言还在某个阶段,你也要用那个阶段的语言跟他沟通呀。不要说超过太难的,要不会困惑他的。这是我家小火炉爸常犯的错误。

我这是不是叫:关公门前耍大刀,鲁班门前弄大斧?
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 楼主| 发表于 2009-6-11 01:34:34 | 只看该作者

re:谢谢你的提醒啊。有时道理知道,做起来还会...

谢谢你的提醒啊。有时道理知道,做起来还会忽视。真的得需要不断提醒。

FLOORTIME TIPS FROMTHERAPIST:
1。只有孩子ENGAGED 很好时,再PUSH 语言。
2。发起一个CIRCLE 后,给5 to 10 秒,等待孩子反应。因为他有PROCESSING DELAY。 孩子一旦有发起CIRCLE,一个动作或眼神,马上要给回应。
3。ENTICE 他做活动,ENTICE 三次。中间等待。如果他仍不有兴趣参与,就要放弃,改而加入孩子的活动。
4。多用象声词。不是语言。

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发表于 2009-6-13 00:59:27 | 只看该作者

re:宝贝贝妈:对不起, 一直没有答复你....

宝贝贝妈:
对不起, 一直没有答复你. 因为我现在还是全天工作, 丈夫今年总是出差, 又要时刻带本游戏, 确实忙不过来. 意儿也佷久没有去看了. 星期日去的时候, 感觉意儿两兄弟比较高兴, 因为有了两位亲姨妈的照顾--意儿妈的姐妹在出事之后以最快的速度赶了过来. 据意儿的爸爸讲, 孩子的姑姑愿意办理CARE GIVER过来照顾孩子, 这比让孩子分开好得多.

我也一直发愁本的PLAY SKILL. 本的兴趣很狭窄, 注意力不集中, 虽然他很喜欢跑步和跳跃, 但我一直没能把这两个活动转成互动游戏, 原因在于本不喜欢和人竞争, 他的协调参照能力弱. 虽然他的TURN TAKING做得不错, 但他没有输赢的概念. 我不知道他的游戏突破点在哪里?

近来他很喜欢玩WII的CAR RACING, 总是主动要求玩, 但他不会用REMOTE, 总是要我控制, 于是我抱着他一起玩. 我很高兴他有兴趣玩GAME, 在RACE之间, 我也能调动他去做一些PUZZLE, BLOCK, 配对之类他不奈烦的活动, 但我还是觉得交流很不够. 我该设置什么样GOAL来利用这个机会呢?

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发表于 2009-6-13 01:43:05 | 只看该作者

喜欢新title

看见换了招牌了,进来到声--恭喜!

这招牌我喜欢,比以前的响亮多了。。。
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 楼主| 发表于 2009-6-13 23:50:05 | 只看该作者

re:BENBEN 妈,我就是有感而发...

BENBEN 妈,

我就是有感而发,也没期待你的回复。可以想象你忙的不得了。连我这全职妈妈都总是不能及时回复。真高兴看到兄弟俩不用分开了。对意儿太有好处了。

一点小建议。他喜欢跑步可以和小朋友玩TAG。不涉及输赢而且很POPULAR。连7.8岁孩子都乐此不疲呢。如果他能跟你玩CAR玩具,互动机会就会多很多了。

改名是意识到我的心得体会都是FLOORTIME方面的。题目太误导。也是受柴火 你改名影响。喜欢就好。赫赫
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