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re:[QUOTE][b]下面引用由[u]oy...
下面引用由oy发表的内容:
Can you write down the details of how Debbie does Floortime with your son, for instance, in the abov...
The process was:
(1) First my boy wanted to touch the computer, then Debbie said that's her computer. My boy said it was his. So Debbie used some examples to let him to understand what does "his/her" mean. And ask him questions when using the example.
(2) Then my boy acknowledged that the computer was Debbie's, but he still wanted to touch. Then Debbie used another example (past experience) to interact with him. (last time, he did not follow Debbie, wanted to touch the CD player, then Debbie took away after warning). So there's some circles again;
(3) Then my son felt sad and a little bit fussy, then asking him what's his feeling. Then Debbie said:" I know you felt so sad because ....". My son responded to that. Then Debbie said :" But that's ok, everybody can have this feeling...." Teach him to connect his emotion to the words.
(4) But my son kept feeling sad, then Debbie said: "No palm touch, Maybe you can have a gentle touch." (skill --- modification). "Gentle touch?" "yes", The Debbie said that can use finger to touch. Asking him which hand to use? Which finger to use? etc... Then more circles coming... Also my son's emotion got calmed down during the communication.
(5) My son insisted on the palm touch, so Debbie told him there's rule to follow. If he does not follow, then will shut down the computer. However, she took steps to do that. First, she told my son the rule.(my son responded to her and have circle again), then my son still want palm touch; Then she give the warning and saying count to 3 (have circles again), then my son still insist, then Debbie click the shut down and the menu showed there and Debbie said "if you do not move, then I will click the "OK" button. This is the last call.." another round of circle with my son.
(6) Finally Debbie shut down the computer. My son felt very sad. Then Debbie retold the rule and asked him why Debbie shut down the computer? Also asked about the emotion and what he felt? Then couple of circles again.
(7) Debbie then said: "If you move back to Mom's place (has distance from computer), I will turn on the computer. But the rule is : no more touch. ......". So my son moved back to my lap, then promised everything Debbie said. Couple circles here...
(8) When the computer came back, my son felt happy. And Debbie asked him again about his emotion. And also mimic his emotion. Asked him why he wanted to turn on the computer, he replied and commented that the picture was so beautiful.(screen saver) Then this leaded them to go to each picture and comment on those.
(9) When finishing, commented this is a happy end. Why? Blabla ...
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