增进自闭症儿童社交理解的社交故事

瑞雪

我手头有Carol Gary的社交故事这本书。我挑了几个在这里。翻译的不妥的地方大家纠正。



<b>Looking While Listening</b>



When someone is talking to me, I try to listen.   This is a very nice thing to do.

Looking at the person who is talking to me is helpful.  This lets the person know I am listening.

Sometimes I try to look at a part of their face.  I try to do this so the other person knows that I am listening to them.  The person who is talking to me will like this a lot.



<b>听别人讲话的时候要看着别人</b>



当别人和我讲话的时候，我要注意听。这是一个好行为。

看着那个和我讲话的人可以让那个人知道我在用心听他讲话。

有时我可以看着他的脸。我试着这末做，他就知道我在听他讲话。他会很喜欢我这末做。



下一个是一位家长针对有关行为问题编的故事：



<b>Walking Away From Conversation </b>

I talk to people all the time

When I'm in a conversation, I NEVER turn away from whoever I'm talking to.

If I turn away I will hurt theiir feelings.

My feelings are hurt when people walk away from em when I'm talking to them.

When I talk to people and don't look at them, they have trouble hearing me.

I know if I STAND STILL & LOOK at whoever I'm talking to, I'll have lot of frineds.



<b>和别人讲话时不可以走开</b>

我时常和别人讲话。

当我和别人讲话的时候，我不应该在讲话时走开。

如果我走开的话，我会伤害那个人的感情。

别人要是在我说话的时候走开，也会让我不高兴。

当我和别人讲话时如果不看他，他会不容易听清我的话。

如果我在讲话时站好不乱动，看着和我讲话的那个人，我就会有很多朋友。



<b>Nightmares</b>



Someties I may have a nightmare when I am sleeping.  Nightmares are the same as a dream, but more scary.

Events in nightmares do not really happen.  They are like pictures in my mind.

It is all right if I am scared.  I may try telling myslef it is all in my mind.  It is only a dream.  Adults can help children with nightmares, too.  It is okay to ask an adult for help with nightmares.

When I wake up, I will see that I am all right.



<b>做恶梦</b>



有时在睡觉时我会做恶梦。

梦里的事情不是真的。它们就像是我的脑子里的一幅幅画。

如果我做了让我害怕了，那是OK的。我可以试着告诉自己那不是真的。那只是个梦。大人也可以帮助做了恶梦的小孩子。请大人帮忙是OK 的。

当我醒来的时候，我知道会没事儿的。



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我的儿子Aaron?惺被嶙龆衩危岷芎ε隆? 除了告诉他以上故事，我们还一起读了印第安人的“捉梦网“ (Dreamcatcher) 的故事，特地给他买了一个挂在床头上。有时孩子有一些我们认为莫名其妙的恐惧，不要忽略他们的感受，要想办法弄明白，然后开导帮助他们。









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应当一无挂虑、只要凡事借着祷告、祈求、和感谢、将你们所要的告诉　神。  神所赐出人意外的平安、必在基督耶稣里、保守你们的心怀意念。             --腓利比书四章六,七节





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瑞雪

Book Title:  The New Social Story Book

Author:      Carol Gray

Publisher:   Future Horizons Inc.

ISBN:        1-885477-66-x

Website:     www.FutureHorizons-autism.com

             http://www.thegraycenter.org



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应当一无挂虑、只要凡事借着祷告、祈求、和感谢、将你们所要的告诉　神。  神所赐出人意外的平安、必在基督耶稣里、保守你们的心怀意念。             --腓利比书四章六,七节

瑞雪

<b>Giving a Gift</b>

A gift is something you give to someone.

People give gifts to other people.

Some gifts are big.

Some gifts are small.

When I give someone a gift I might say,

"Here's a gift for you."

Sometimes people give me a gift.

When people give me a gift, I will try to say, "Thank you."

Saying "thank you" is polite.

People like to hear "thank you" after they give someone a gift.



<b>送礼物</b>

礼物是我们送给别人的某样东西.

人们会互相送礼物.

有的礼物很大

有的礼物很小

当我要送人礼物的时候,我可以说:

"我有一份礼物给你."

有时别人送给我礼物.

当人家送我礼物的时候, 我要试着说:"谢谢"

说"谢谢"是有礼貌的好孩子.

人家送礼物的人喜欢听到"谢谢".



<b>Learning to Help Others</b>

Sometimes people need help.

Sometimes people need help opening a door.  Sometimes people need help making dinner.  Sometimes people need help in other ways.

People like to be helped.

Sometimes people do not need or want help.

If I see someone who I think needs to be helped, I may ask that person, "Do you need help?"

The answer may be, "No." This is Okay.

The answer mayb be, "Yes." I may ask, "What would you like me to do?

If I think I cannot do what they ask me to do, I amy try saying, "Can you show me what to do?"



<b>How to Greet Someone</b>

There are many ways to greet someone.

When I see someone I know, usually I will try to smile and say "hello." They may say "hello" back.  They may stop to talk with me.

Sometimes I will try to shake their hand.  Sometimes, when I am visiting a relative or a close friend, I will try to give them a small hug or a little pat on the back or the shoulder.

Sometimes, if I am just passing someone I know, I can smile, wave, or just nod my head.  Most people like it when I smile at them.  Smiling can make people feel good.



<b>怎样和人打招呼</b>

和人打招呼有很多方法.

当我看到认识的人时,我可以笑笑,和他们说"嗨."他们可能也说"嘿",也可能停下来和我说话.

有的人我可以和他们握手.去看朋友和亲戚时我可以抱抱他们,或轻轻拍拍他们的后背或肩膀.

如果我在路上遇到认识的人,我也可以向他挥挥手,笑一笑,或是点点头.

大家都喜欢我向他们笑一笑. 微笑让人快乐.

瑞雪

谢谢政伟姊妹的鼓励！  知道这些资料有人看，我敲字的劲头就更大一些。<img src="images/icon_smile.gif" border=0> 我刚刚看望父母回来，今天太晚了，明天再敲。



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应当一无挂虑、只要凡事借着祷告、祈求、和感谢、将你们所要的告诉　神。 神所赐出人意外的平安、必在基督耶稣里、保守你们的心怀意念。 --腓利比书四章六,七节







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瑞雪

这些社交股市如果配上插图，效果会更好。在图中，可以把不同角色说的话和想法用“气球”(conversation bubble) 和“云朵”(thought cloud) 表示出来。



<b>How to Use the Telephone</b>

Many people like to talk on the telephone.

Sometimes my grandpa or grandma will call me.  We talk on the telephone.

Sometimes other people call me on the telephone.

When people call, I will try to pick up the telephone receiver and say, "Hello."

The person who is calling will return my greeting.

Sometimes I will not know the person calling on the telephone. Then it's a good idea to ask who is calling.

Sometimes people call and have the wrong house.  This means they have called the wrong number.  I can tell them, "I am sorry.  You have called the wrong number." Then I can say "goodbye" and hang up the phone.

Sometimes I may want to call someone.  To do that, I can learn to pick up the telephone receiver and dial their phone number.

When someone answers the phone I can try to say, "Hello."

I can talk to my friend on the phone.



<b>怎样打电话</b>

很多人都喜欢打电话。

有时爷爷奶奶会打电话给我。我们用电话讲话。

有时别人会给我打电话。

当别人打电话来时，我要把电话的话筒拿起来，然后说：“喂”。

打电话的人会回应我。

有时我不认识打来电话的人。问问那是谁是个好主意。

有时别人会打错电话。这说明他们按了错的号码。我可以和他们说：“对不起，你打错电话了。”然后我说：“再见”后就挂上电话。



<b>Learning to Play Fair</b>

It is a good idea to play fair with my friends.

Sometimes my friend may win the game we are playing.

I will try to stay calm if my friend wins a game.

If my friend wins a game, I may ask them to play again.  Asking to play again is a friendly thing to do.

It is good to play fair when playing games.  That way friends may want to play again.



<b>学习玩的公平</b>

和小朋友玩的时候要公平。

有时在玩游戏的时候，我的小朋友会赢。

别人赢了一个游戏的时候，我要尽量保持平静。

如果我的朋友赢了，我可以要他们再玩一遍。这是友好的表示。

玩游戏的时候要公平。这样小朋友们才愿意再玩一遍。



<b>Sharing Toys</b>

Many children play with toys.  When they play with toys, they have fun.

It may be fun to play with toys with other children.

I can learn to share toys.

Sharing might be fun.  When I play, I will try to share and have fun.



<b>和别人一起玩玩具</b>

很多小朋友都喜欢玩玩具。当他们玩玩具的时候，他们很高兴。

和小朋友们一起玩玩具可以是一件快乐的事。

我可以学习和别人分享玩具。

分享玩具可以是很好玩的。下次我玩玩具的时候，我要试着和别人一起玩，一起开心。