When someone is talking to me, I try to listen. This is a very nice thing to do.
Looking at the person who is talking to me is helpful. This lets the person know I am listening.
Sometimes I try to look at a part of their face. I try to do this so the other person knows that I am listening to them. The person who is talking to me will like this a lot.
<b>听别人讲话的时候要看着别人</b>
当别人和我讲话的时候，我要注意听。这是一个好行为。
看着那个和我讲话的人可以让那个人知道我在用心听他讲话。
有时我可以看着他的脸。我试着这末做，他就知道我在听他讲话。他会很喜欢我这末做。
下一个是一位家长针对有关行为问题编的故事：
<b>Walking Away From Conversation </b>
I talk to people all the time
When I'm in a conversation, I NEVER turn away from whoever I'm talking to.
If I turn away I will hurt theiir feelings.
My feelings are hurt when people walk away from em when I'm talking to them.
When I talk to people and don't look at them, they have trouble hearing me.
I know if I STAND STILL & LOOK at whoever I'm talking to, I'll have lot of frineds.
<b>和别人讲话时不可以走开</b>
我时常和别人讲话。
当我和别人讲话的时候，我不应该在讲话时走开。
如果我走开的话，我会伤害那个人的感情。
别人要是在我说话的时候走开，也会让我不高兴。
当我和别人讲话时如果不看他，他会不容易听清我的话。
如果我在讲话时站好不乱动，看着和我讲话的那个人，我就会有很多朋友。
<b>Nightmares</b>
Someties I may have a nightmare when I am sleeping. Nightmares are the same as a dream, but more scary.
Events in nightmares do not really happen. They are like pictures in my mind.
It is all right if I am scared. I may try telling myslef it is all in my mind. It is only a dream. Adults can help children with nightmares, too. It is okay to ask an adult for help with nightmares.
金金妈妈作者: 瑞雪 时间: 2003-3-27 12:00 标题: Re:增进自闭症儿童社交理解的社交故事 <b>Giving a Gift</b>
A gift is something you give to someone.
People give gifts to other people.
Some gifts are big.
Some gifts are small.
When I give someone a gift I might say,
"Here's a gift for you."
Sometimes people give me a gift.
When people give me a gift, I will try to say, "Thank you."
Saying "thank you" is polite.
People like to hear "thank you" after they give someone a gift.
<b>送礼物</b>
礼物是我们送给别人的某样东西.
人们会互相送礼物.
有的礼物很大
有的礼物很小
当我要送人礼物的时候,我可以说:
"我有一份礼物给你."
有时别人送给我礼物.
当人家送我礼物的时候, 我要试着说:"谢谢"
说"谢谢"是有礼貌的好孩子.
人家送礼物的人喜欢听到"谢谢".
<b>Learning to Help Others</b>
Sometimes people need help.
Sometimes people need help opening a door. Sometimes people need help making dinner. Sometimes people need help in other ways.
People like to be helped.
Sometimes people do not need or want help.
If I see someone who I think needs to be helped, I may ask that person, "Do you need help?"
The answer may be, "No." This is Okay.
The answer mayb be, "Yes." I may ask, "What would you like me to do?
If I think I cannot do what they ask me to do, I amy try saying, "Can you show me what to do?"
<b>How to Greet Someone</b>
There are many ways to greet someone.
When I see someone I know, usually I will try to smile and say "hello." They may say "hello" back. They may stop to talk with me.
Sometimes I will try to shake their hand. Sometimes, when I am visiting a relative or a close friend, I will try to give them a small hug or a little pat on the back or the shoulder.
Sometimes, if I am just passing someone I know, I can smile, wave, or just nod my head. Most people like it when I smile at them. Smiling can make people feel good.
Sometimes my grandpa or grandma will call me. We talk on the telephone.
Sometimes other people call me on the telephone.
When people call, I will try to pick up the telephone receiver and say, "Hello."
The person who is calling will return my greeting.
Sometimes I will not know the person calling on the telephone. Then it's a good idea to ask who is calling.
Sometimes people call and have the wrong house. This means they have called the wrong number. I can tell them, "I am sorry. You have called the wrong number." Then I can say "goodbye" and hang up the phone.
Sometimes I may want to call someone. To do that, I can learn to pick up the telephone receiver and dial their phone number.
When someone answers the phone I can try to say, "Hello."